Get Perfect Eyebrows

Every human being is bestowed with natural shape of eyebrows. Depending on the shape and thickness, they can either beautify your face or make it look inconspicuous. People who have a thick growth with beautiful arches, need not manipulate them much. A little effort to remove the extra hair, while retaining the natural shape, can make a lot difference. Determining the shape of the eyebrow needs to be done by ensuring the distance between the eyes, nose and end of the eyebrows is equal. The arch of the eyebrow needs to fall in the right place to be able to fully emphasize the shape of the eyes. Your eybrows should frame your face don't let them be the only thing people look at because they are taking over your face!

~find a beautician to help you determine the shape of your eyebrows. The arching and thickness of the eyebrows can be determined by you. The beautician will be able to shape the eyebrows in the exact way and this is not an easy thing to do. You are looking for a symmetrical look and symmetry can be a little bit difficult to obtain on your own.

Shape of Brows                            

The framework of face is the most important aspect in determining the shape of eyebrows.                  

                                                                                                                      

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Arched eyebrows suit the best in round face or semi oval face. The brow angled high or peaked at the middle, while keeping the tapering part small, is the ideal shape for round face.

Perfect eyebrows for oval face, are shaped flat.

The arch is usually kept low for oval or elongated face.

If eyebrows are angled with raised peak, they make the face look even longer.

 

To retain the oval shape, the peak should be very small or flat.

Round eyebrows with softer peaks complement faces with tapered chin and oblong frame. The brow should be left thick for square face and slight angle should be made at the end.

~after you have determined how thick and how arched your eyebrows should be, allow the beautician to give your eyebrows the desired shape. There is a variety of ways you can shape your eyebrows in depending on each person’s personal preference. Eyebrow threading, eyebrow waxing and tweezing are the most popular methods so far. A lot of people consider waxing the best option because the results are quicker and last almost one month. Choose whatever appeals to you most; just make sure you turn for the help of an experienced beautician

~if you already shaped your eyebrows and the result is not the one you desired, allow your eyebrows to grow back and then visit a beautician. The results will be well worth the money spent.
 
~make sure your beautician or eyebrow technician is  licensed to perform  your service. Ask to see it (especially if in a nail shop or some place that’s not a salon or spa. Usually cosmetologist and estheticians are only licensed in this area to perform these services to be trained for sanitation purposes lessen chances of infections or allergic reactions

~once your eyebrows have been shaped to perfection all you need to do is maintain their shape by plucking the new grown hairs. You can do it yourself or you can visit a beautician on a regular basis

Extra Tips

·  a great look can be achieved by trimming the eyebrows. The ends of the hairs will be trimmed at the same length using a small pair or scissors. Make sure not to cut too much and cut at the same length

·  fill in any gaps in your eyebrows with make-up. This way you will be able to have gorgeously shaped and well defined eyebrows. You can use an eyeshadow or an eyebrow pencil in the same color as your eyebrows, depending on what seems easier and better for you

 

• groom and maintain your perfectly shaped eyebrows as often as necessary and you will look gorgeous. You will be able to see the results and the change in just seconds, so don't hesitate to get the perfect eyebrows.

• fill in sparse areas with a freshly sharpened brow pencil - be a bombshell; use light, quick strokes to draw in hair. Brow powder will give thin brows overall definition, and is great for a more natural look. Using the brow brush, sweep powder up and outward over brows. If you're a brow novice, a tinted brow gel is a foolproof way to keep brows in place. Try to lightly coat brows using upward and making outward strokes. Wipe off any excess and allow it to set. Then Be Glam!

Call for your Eyebrow Shaping $9 at Genesis Salon 336-722-2233

 

 Sources: Monycrashers.com, becomegorgeous.com

 

 

 

Natural Remedies: How to Prevent or Help with a Cold

Flu season will typically begin in the late fall and peak in mid-to-late winter. Annual outbreaks of seasonal flu usually occur during the fall through early spring. So early prevention and things to do when you have the symptoms can hopefully keep you from going to a doctor. Here are some "Natural Remedies to help prevent or fight a cold":

Eat Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup
Why does chicken noodle soup help heal you when you’re sick? Well, some doctors believe homemade chicken soup salty warmth helps remove virus-filled mucus from the lining from your throat. Some think that the hot chicken soup can improve the function of cilia, which are the tiny projections on your lungs that help protect you from foreign bacteria. The soup can also help strengthen the movement of your white blood cells which fight disease. The broth also gives your body much-needed hydration. Add a dash of parsley. The herb contains beta-carotene which revs up body’s output of virus-fighting T-cell.

Personally, I think it always makes you feel better when someone you love brings you homemade chicken noodle soup and some crackers. Delivering that homemade soup is a sure sign that you care about someone, and I think it perks them up more than anything you could buy over the counter.
 

Drink Ginger Tea
Ginger helps stimulate the nerves that lead to mucus production. If you have a scratchy throat, or dry, irritated nasal cavities, then slice some fresh ginger and put it in a tea strainer. Pour in some boiling water and let the ginger steep for 5 to 10 minutes. Flavor with a spoonful of honey and or lemon, and sip. Ginger contains a group of compounds called sesquiterpenes, which kills rhinoviruses, the agents that cause colds. So when you have a cold, several cups of fresh ginger root tea can help you to reduce the severity and duration of a cold. Ginger tea also helps to relieve a sore throat. Drink three or more cups daily until you are well. For children, dilute the concentration of the tea, so it’s less spicy.

 
Think Steam
When you have a cold or the flu, steam is your friend because it helps open your airways.

Boil water and pour it in a large bowl containing at least two teaspoons of shaved ginger. Drape a towel over your head, lower it until you’re right over the bowl, and breathe in the gingered steam. You can also do this with Vick’s Vapor Rub. Simply drop a heaping spoonful of the balm into the boiling water and stir it until it dissolves. Again, breathe in the steam.

Humidify
Remember when I said steam is your friend? Well, this goes for your entire house.
The reason why the influenza virus spreads like wildfire during colder months is because it loves dry environments. And our homes, with the heat running all the time, are really, really dry during the winter. This means that once it gets in, it’s easy for the virus to live longer on doorknobs and other surfaces.

Keep your home as humid as possible during the winter months. And when you get sick, run a humidifier wherever you’re resting. This will also help your nasal cavities feel better.

Stifle That Cough 
If you have a persistent, dry cough, reach for the honey (preferably dark honey like buckwheat). Mix a 1-2 tablespoon of honey with fresh lemon juice and half a cup of hot water. This can also help a sore throat feel better. (Honey isn’t recommended to babies under 12 months)

Remember, you should only try to stifle a cough if it’s dry and persistent. If you’re coughing up mucus, then don’t try to stifle it. The more junk you can cough up, the quicker you’ll get better.

If You Can Stand It, Reach for the Garlic
So, you might only want to try this one if you’re home alone, but garlic is a well-known natural remedy for colds and flu. Why? Garlic has strong antiseptic and antispasmodic properties. In English, this means that garlic is a natural antibiotic and will help you stop coughing. Its oil will also help open up your respiratory passages and can even help lower your fever. When you’re sick, garlic is good; you can add some to your homemade soup if you like.

To make a soup, chop 3 to 4 cloves of garlic and boil them in one cup of water. After it has boiled, strain off the garlic, you can add juice of a lemon, mix in a teaspoon of honey, and drink the broth. This shot to the immune system will help you to get rid of the cold faster.   

Drink, Drink, Drink
Often when you have the flu, you often get a fever. Although you may curse your high temperature, keep in mind that the fever is your body’s way of trying to kill the virus that has made you sick. The hotter you are, the harder it is for that virus to thrive.

Having a fever means that it’s that much easier for you to get dehydrated. You need to drink water and fruit juice constantly. Having enough moisture in your system will also help ensure that your coughs are productive (that is, the liquids can make mucus easier to cough up).

Reach for the Mustard
This remedy is going to sound positively medieval, but the Discovery Channel claims it works because mustard is loaded with anti-microbial and anti-inflammatory properties. Plus, people have been using mustard to help cure colds as far back as Ancient Roman times. I’m willing to give it a try next time I get sick.

Make a mustard plaster by mixing 1 tablespoon of mustard with 2 to 4 tablespoons of flour. Then, mix in one egg white and enough warm water to form a paste.  

Next, on a clean handkerchief or cotton cloth (big enough to cover the chest area) smear on the mustard just like you’d smear it on a sandwich. Then, put another piece of cloth on top of it.

Now, rub some olive oil on the patient’s chest and lay the mustard cloth sandwich on top. Leave the wrap on the chest for a few minutes, but make sure you check on it. Believe it or not, mustard burns the skin. After a few minutes take off the wrap and wipe off any mustard residue.

Tip: If you usually get sick at least once during the winter or spring “flu season,” then stock up on these supplies now so you don’t have to rush out to get them when you, or a family member, gets sick.

 

Sources: Moneycrashers.com

Do you have any other natural home remedies for the flu that work for you? Share them in the comments below. Also below is a recipe for  “Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup”:

 

Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup

4 lbs chicken (skinless, rinsed)               

1 tsp dried thyme

1 bay leaf (dried)

2 garlic cloves (minced)

1 chicken bouillon cubes

salt

pepper

1 cup celery (sliced)

1 cup carrot (chopped)

1 cup potato (diced)

4 ozs egg noodles

14 cup fresh parsley leaves (freshly chopped fresh parsley leaves stems removed)

 

 Directions:

1. In a large pot add chicken, breast side down, onion, thyme, bay leaf, and garlic. Add enough water to cover; season with salt and pepper. Bring to a boil over high heat; reduce to a simmer, and cook, partially covered, until chicken is cooked through, about 45 minutes. Skim any foam that rises to the top and discard.
 
2. Remove chicken from pot, and let stand until cool enough to handle. Skim fat from surface of soup, if desired, and discard. Remove meat from bones; discard skin and bones. Shred meat into bite-size pieces, and return to pot.
 
3. Add celery, carrots, potato, egg noodles and parsley. Cook until tender, about 20 minutes. Squeeze fresh limejuice into soup and stir. Can also squeeze into individual bowls before serving.

Chapter#3 What's the Real Meaning of Thanksgiving

Chapter #3 Real Meaning of Thanksgiving

"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." ~ Marcel Proust

As a result of the Indians aid in surviving, the Pilgrims soon found they had more food than they could eat themselves. They set up trading posts and exchanged goods with the Indians. The profits allowed them to pay off their debts to the merchants in London much faster than expected. The success of the Plymouth colony thus attracted more Europeans and set off what we call the “Great Puritan Migration.”

 The Pilgrim crop had failed miserably that year, but the agricultural expertise of the Indians had produced twenty acres of corn, without which the Pilgrims would have surely perished. The Indians often brought food to the Pilgrims, who came from England ridiculously unprepared to survive and hence relied almost exclusively on handouts from the overly generous Indians-thus making the Pilgrims the western hemisphere's first class of welfare recipients. The Pilgrims invited the Indian sachem Massasoit to their feast, and it was Massasoit, engaging in the tribal tradition of equal sharing, who then invited ninety or more of his Indian brothers and sisters-to the annoyance of the 50 or so ungrateful Europeans. No turkey, cranberry sauce or pumpkin pie was served; they likely ate duck or geese and the venison from the 5 deer brought by Massasoit. In fact, most, if not all, of the food was most likely brought and prepared by the Indians, whose 10,000-year familiarity with the cuisine of the region had kept the pilgrims alive up to that point.

According to a single-paragraph account in the writings of one Pilgrim, a harvest feast did take place in Plymouth in 1621, probably in mid-October, but the Indians who attended were not even invited. Though it later became known as "Thanksgiving," the Pilgrims never called it that. It’s not at all clear what happened at the first – and only – “integrated” Thanksgiving feast. Only two written accounts of the three-day event exist, and one of them, by Governor William Bradford, was written 20 years after the fact. Was Chief Massasoit invited to bring 90 Indians with him to dine with 52 colonists, most of them women and children? This seems unlikely. A good harvest had provided the settlers with plenty of food, according to their accounts, so the pilgrims didn’t really need the Wampanoag’s offering of five deer. What we do know is that there had been lots of tension between the two groups that fall. John Two-Hawks, who runs the Native Circle web site, gives a sketch of the facts:

“Thanksgiving' did not begin as a great loving relationship between the pilgrims and the Wampanoag, Pequot and Narragansett people. In fact, in October of 1621 when the pilgrim survivors of their first winter in Turtle Island sat down to share the first unofficial 'Thanksgiving' meal, the Indians who were there were not even invited! The pilgrims wanted to get together for a feast to thank their God for their surplus of food and getting rid of the Indians (which they felt were heathens) so they can have more of the land. There was no turkey, squash, cranberry sauce or pumpkin pie. A few days before this alleged feast took place, a company of 'pilgrims' led by Miles Standish actively sought the head of a local Indian chief, and an 11 foot high wall was erected around the entire Plymouth settlement for the very purpose of keeping Indians out!”

It is much more likely that Chief Massasoit either crashed the party, or brought enough men to ensure that he was not kidnapped or harmed by the Pilgrims. Dr. Tingba Apidta, in his”Black Folks’ Guide to Understanding Thanksgiving,” surmises that the settlers “brandished their weaponry” early and got drunk soon thereafter, which they preferred even to water. Soon after the feast the brutish Miles Standish “got his bloody prize,” Dr. Apidta writes:

“He went to the Indians, pretended to be a trader, and then beheaded an Indian man named Wituwamat. He brought the head to Plymouth, where it was displayed on a wooden spike for many years, according to Gary B. Nash, ‘as a symbol of white power.’ Standish had the Indian man's young brother hanged from the rafters for good measure. From that time on, the pilgrims were known to the Indians of Massachusetts by the name ‘Wotowquenange,’ which in their tongue meant cutthroats and stabbers.”

What is certain is that the first feast was not called a “Thanksgiving” at the time; no further integrated dining occasions were scheduled; and the first, official all-Pilgrim “Thanksgiving” had to wait until 1637, when the whites of New England celebrated the massacre of the Wampanoag’s southern neighbors, the Pequots.


It is not known how many Indians were sold into slavery, but in this campaign, 500 enslaved Indians were shipped from Plymouth alone. Of the 12,000 Indians in the surrounding tribes, probably about half died from battle, massacre and starvation.

The British North American colonists’ practice of enslaving Indians for labor or direct sale to the West Indies preceded the appearance of the first chained Africans at the dock in Jamestown, Virginia; in 1619 African Slavery commenced contemporaneously – an overlapping and ultimately inseparable Act Two. America embraced Thanksgiving because a majority of that population glories in the fruits, if not the unpleasant details, of genocide and slavery and feels, on the whole, good about their heritage: a cornucopia of privilege and national power. Children are taught to identify with the good fortune of the Pilgrims. It does not much matter that the Native American and African holocausts that flowed from the feast at Plymouth are hidden from the children’s version of the story – kids learn soon enough that Indians were made scarce and Africans became enslaved.

But it wasn’t just an economic system that allowed the Pilgrims to prosper. It was their devotion to God and His laws. And that’s what Thanksgiving is really all about. The Pilgrims recognized that everything we have is a gift from God – even our sorrows. Their Thanksgiving tradition was established to honor God and thank Him for His blessings and His grace. Today we continue that tradition in my home – and I hope in yours. God bless you, God bless your family, and Happy Thanksgiving.

Sources
http://www.blackcommentator.com/66/66_cover_thanksgiving.html http://www.wnd.com/2001/11/11760/
 http://brokenmystic.wordpress.com/2008/11/27/the-truth-about-thanksgiving-brainwashing-of-the-american-history-textbook/

Relationship Talk #2

Women Say: I Don't Need A Man!


Here's a part 2 of our Relationship Talk below is another clip of Iyanla Fix My Love Life where she points out somethings I see women do at the salon alot relating to relationships. This is an issue I think ladies need to view themselves to make sure the message that they are putting out there is the one that they want to get and what they want to receive back!

Not long ago, I was at the salon talking to one of my clients and she had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years. She couldn’t figure out what quite went wrong, her position was “why wouldn't he want me and if anything for that matter, why wouldn't any man?” “I have a job, a car, a house, a college degree, I am a catch. I did everything for him, I cooked, I cleaned, I paid all the bills (even though he had a job), and I even took him to work if he needed.” The more I listened to her talk about their relationship; I couldn’t tell if she was his girlfriend or his mother. She wasn’t acting like a girlfriend but more of a caregiver to me. I had to ask her why was she paying all the bills and taking care of him? She says, "Because it's my house." I said, "It's your house that he lives in equally, and that’s why you feel that only you should pay the bills??" She said, "yes, I don’t need a man, all I need him for is sex really." I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. Even after women profess this mentality and become married, they still have problems getting through this mantra.

I have two other clients that are married and they are still struggling with this. The first thing that came to mind was the thought process one of my clients' who was 20 yrs old at the time had. She was sitting in my chair and said how she was working part-time while in school trying to get her cosmetology license. She has two small children already and they had only been married a few months, and they live with his grandmother. She vented about her concerns and trying to keep her head above water with her part-time job with two babies to feed. Her husband had a full time job and makes more money than she, and she needed a newer car and he wanted to buy her one but she didn't want him to. "Umm, wait a minute, you don’t want your husband to get you a car and you don’t have one currently?" I asked. She said, "No, I want to get my own car. I’m independent.”Again, “huh, you’re independent from your husband?? I was thoroughly confused about how you can be both single and married?" But, this thinking transcends age. I have another client who is older and doing well in life, but she has possibly made her husband feel that they won’t be married too long after being married for almost a year. He feels she won’t even blink an eye if they divorce. She wonders, "how can he think like that?" "Is he insecure?" However, she continues to do things that would make anyone think that it could happen. They’ve moved into a beautiful new home, but she kept her own home that she had before they married, even though he sold his after they were married. She got a prenup so he couldn’t have any of her future money (even though currently he makes more). They go on long trips without each other and she believes her money is hers and his is hers, and wonders if there should be a cap on the amount of money that she should allow him to use of hers. I just couldn't believe the things I’m hearing behind that chair.

But I’ve heard many women say they don't need a man before and even since then. I think it’s becoming more and more common that ladies use this as motto's in music, movies, etc. I personally think that it’s going too far because in another breath I see these same women trying to find one.

“I don’t need a man!”

We will say this, but in my whole life I have never heard a man say, “I don’t need a woman!”

I began to wonder what it really means when a woman says, “I don’t need a man!”

I asked a guy what you first think of when you hear a woman say, “I don’t need a man.” It always sounded to me like she was a “bitter person” with a lot of baggage, or like someone who had a chip on her shoulder from being played with by some guy(s). Also, she might have impossible standards or something could be wrong with her. For some reason it never sounded as though the woman making the statement was “happy”.

Times have changed, a woman with a career, home, car, and a 401k is not rare these days.

In fact, according to labor statistics more women are becoming the “bread winners” or earning more than their husbands. However, there seems to be an (equality VS tradition) issue going on in lots of households. Don’t you think many of these bread winning wives still wish their men earned more than they do?

Here's an interview I got from Examiner.com about “I don’t need a man!” statement. They interviewed a woman and this was her response. She responded to my 7 questions below.

Please feel free to comment on what the statement means to you and how it should be interpreted by the listener. However let’s first examine the word “NEED”.

Need Vs Want....

Basically there are only 5 things an adult truly "needs" to survive.

1. Air

2. Water

3. Food

4. Shelter

5, Clothing (It’s the law in most places)

Just a side note- all 5 of the above items can also be found at any county jail.

Therefore I’m fairly certain anything beyond the (5 needs) falls under another category such as “Want” or “Nice to have”. So why women bring that up I’m not too sure.

When we substitute the word want for need the statement reads;

“I don’t want a man!” hmmm….

“I don’t need a man!” What does that really mean?

1. Is this a pride thing or a statement of financial independence?

It depends. For some women it is a pride issue of being emotionally independent. They have seen women kill themselves to be with men and devalue themselves when they are not with men. Their desire is to prove to the world that they are strong enough to be alone and they are willing to pay whatever cost it takes to be alone. For other women it might be an issue of financial independence where the female believes that she is financially sound and on some level she was probably taught that was the purpose of a man in your life…financial. So, if I am financially sound and doing it real big why would I need a man. The sentiment is “I got this on my own”.

2. Is this a confirmation?

The phrase could be used as an affirmation. For some women who have not dated and have been given messages that a man will complete a woman in an effort to free themselves from that crazy bondage they may say to themselves “I don’t need a man” meaning I can be happy, find interesting things to do, learn and better myself without the presence of a man. This is contrary to those women who believe that they are nothing without a man. They swing from man to man like jungle vines literally afraid to be by themselves. Some women see being able to stand alone without a man is a sign of strength.

3. Is it a slam against other women who are perceived to "need a man"?

Yes, definitely! For the woman who says “I don’t need a man “that it is directed more to the woman who appears to “need” a man than to the actual man. Those women are seen as weak and incapable of loving themselves enough to spend time with…themselves. For the woman who shouts “I don’t need a man” she is saying I am better and stronger than you because I can survive without a man and you can’t.

4. So the word "Need" implies some kind of weakness such as begging?

Yes! It is generally looked upon by some women as a weakness to “need” a man. The whole “I’m straight when I have a man” and “I’m a mess when I don’t have one” is seen as a weakness. The assumption is they tend to let this temporary condition define them too much.

5. Is it a self-defense statement she makes because she does not have a man or is it the man she has is not up to her “standards”?

Sometimes, yes. Remember when we were kids and when you were the only one who didn’t have something that everyone else did your natural coping response was to say “I didn’t want it anyway” The same is true for relationships. After being without a man by choice or by circumstance for a long period of time one begins to think “I better make the most of this.” I think it just depends on what stage you are in your life.

6. Does she not want a man?

It depends. She may want a man but doesn’t want to feel like she’s not complete without one. She may also feel like that time in her life has passed her by and the whole “I don’t need a man” thing is a defense mechanism to hide her disappointment about being alone.

She may not want a man because she has been hurt or disappointed in the past and has not done the work to overcome the memories of the bad relationships in her past. She may also not want a man because she truly doesn’t have a desire to share her life with a man at this time in her life.

7. What is a man suppose to do with this information? Say, “Thanks for letting me know” and move on to a woman who does need a man in her life?”

In my humble opinion I would say that a man should examine what that means. As I have explained it could be a number of reasons why a woman might feel that way. If the reason she is saying, “I don’t need a man in my life but I want you in my life” I would encourage the man to go for it unless he is the type that wants to feel needed. (Like most men are)

I will admit that I have said I don’t need a man but that doesn’t also mean that I don’t want a man. When I fall in love again (I know I will) I might get to the point where I say “I can’t see my life without you” or “You are an incredibly important part of my life”… but I don’t know that I could say that I needed him because…okay here it goes…"what if knowing that makes him act like a big dummy and then he leaves me. Then I will have let my guard down for the wrong person…once again." (This made me think are the reason women saying this is based out of some fear or insecurity to prove that we don’t need one. Like if I say I don’t need in the first place if it doesn’t happen I didn’t want it anyway so it doesn’t feel like nothing is lost.)

I imagine women that genuinely don’t need/want men probably are the least likely to feel compelled state it unless they are asked.

I initially thought it was very similar to me walking around saying, “I don’t need cocaine!”

However, as my friend pointed out the “I don’t need a man!” statement is a way of rejecting/rebelling what society has told them they do “need” or are suppose to need.

Society is not telling me that I should “need” cocaine or any other vices.

Nonetheless, I suspect there is a segment of women who simply have given up on romance and love. After all this is a very cynical world we live in, but to claim/affirm you don’t need something that you really do “want “is the best way to assure yourself that you will never get it.

We have a way of getting the things we “decide that we need”.

A drug addict with a $300 a day habit will find a way to get his fix which works out to $2100 a week or over $109k a year. Nothing is impossible.

I use the drug analogy simply to illustrate the will of a human spirit determined to have something. By no means am I suggesting that a woman pursue a man or love in the same fashion as an addict goes after drugs.

What I am suggesting is if you really do want something it’s probably wise to stop telling yourself and others you don’t want it!

The majority of people (both men and women) imagine what life would be like to have their "ideal mate" and yet we learn to accept the reality that we may never have it.

Most people aren't going to win the lottery either, but that does not stop millions of people from buying a ticket. In fact most of us have a better shot of falling in love with our "soul-mate" than we do winning a million dollars in the lottery!

It’s our desire, wanting/needing something which gives us motivation to get through another day, month, and year. You are entitled to dream of having someone special to snuggle with in front of the fireplace, take strolls with along the beach, have picnics in the park with, go out to dinner, plays, concerts, take exotic vacations with…etc

Make sure your today’s wishing for not needing/wanting a man doesn’t keep you from the not having a man that you truly desire for your tomorrow. Are you going don’t let your not need a man keep you from not wanting or having one. Don’t let your wishing for not wanting a man keep you from not having one!

So does this change any of your views or just confirm them we would like to hear from you!?